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Friday, January 20, 2006
Penny for your thoughts
Was discussing with my cousin yesterday...
Is it good for attached girls to have "sparetyres"??
By "sparetyres", I do not mean the tummy fats..!! Tummy fats are no good lo... :p
but rather, guys who are willing to be there anytime that the gal need him, despite the fact that the gal already has a long-term bf..
according to my cousin...It is good to have that...
Main reason being...You should give yourself more choices before making the decision of "He's the ONE"....
(oh btw, my cousin is a guy)
therefore, his theory is that, even if you are attached, you should give other guys a chance to get to know you better or admirers..... (same for guys)
From a gal point of view, i think it is definately good to have some "sparetyres" around you...!
IMO, I certainly dun mind having admirers! it helps in building up self-confidence! hehehe... :D
but hor...I think I will get a sense of guilt if I go on a date with an admirer... towards my bf (unless mayb i got his permission??? haha..) n the admirer (unless he is a close friend of mine) lo....
coz feel like leading the guy on....?? hmm....
Mayb i'm just not that open-minded yet lah....... :p
wroofs wroofs 1:24 PM
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